This Is Not The Story You Think It Is: A Season of Unlikely Happiness
Title: This Is Not The Story You Think It Is: A Season of Unlikely Happiness
Author: Laura Munson
Recounts how the author told her husband she didn’t believe him when he said he no longer loved her, how their relationship unfolded thereafter, and how the author stopped basing her happiness on things outside her control.
Laura Munson’s essay in the New York Times, about the time she was tested in a way she never anticipated, created a firestorm-now here’s the whole story.
When Laura Munson’s essay was published, The New York Times was so flooded with responses that they had to close down the comment feature. Readers wrote in saying that they had sent the column to all of their friends. Therapists wrote Munson to tell her that they were passing it out to their clients.
What did Munson write that caused such a fervor?
Laura detailed what happened when her husband of more than twenty years told her he wasn’t sure he loved her anymore and wanted to move out. And while you might think you know where this story is going, this isn’t the story you think it is. Laura’s response to her husband: I don’t buy it.
In this poignant, wise, and often funny memoir, Munson recounts a period of months in which her faith in herself-and her marriage-was put to the test. Shaken to the core after the death of her beloved father, not finding the professional success that she had hoped for, and after countless hours of therapy, Laura finally, at age forty, realized she had to stop basing her happiness on things outside her control and commit herself to an “End of Suffering.” This Is Not The Story You Think It Is… chronicles a woman coming to terms with the myths we tell ourselves-and others-about our life and realizing that ultimately happiness is completely within our control.